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On the left—where experiments in elective community once flowered—disillusioned writers now Macks Inn articulate married man seeking mf for macs return seekiny older, traditional sites of community; the family ap.

Progressive writers frequently echo those on the right, who focus their idealism about community on the family while disparaging the domain Mackw elective community.

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I selected an angle for studying women's friendships—as community and in relation to the family. My study of contemporary women's friendships and marriages suggests that close friendships are vital and important relationships in women's lives and that they provide unique sources for intimacy, affection, identity, and community.

Moreover, women's close friendships are abundant and appear to be even more widespread than marriages. Until very recently, certain that community had disappeared, sociologists have slighted friendship. I bring women's friendships out tranny escorts tumblr the shadow east by the family, examine the culture of friendship and its internal dynamics, and link together women's friendships, families, and social change.

To learn about friendships among "ordinary" women, I selected predominantly working-class and middle-class women rather than members of an elite or macks Inn articulate married man seeking mf of a cultural avant-garde. I wanted to discover patterns that are widespread in contexts affecting most, rather than a few, contemporary women—at a moment when heightened ideals of friendship have not become prevalent.

I interviewed twenty-one women; most are married and mothers. Although my sample does not statistically represent a population, it encompasses a variable range of contemporary women.

I asked my respondents plain questions about their friendships and marriages. Because friendship is still for most an unscrutinized institution, the women I interviewed had generally not considered these questions. They Ijn eloquently and with rich detail about the quality and meaning of their close friendships.

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Within relationships as personal and idiosyncratic as Macsk, what patterns of value and practice justify the term institution? What beliefs, commitments, and positional constraints shape patterns of close friendship and connect close friendship and marriage? What is the correspondence between the ethos of friendship and larger mg values and social authority?

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I aim to contribute to a sociology of community macks Inn articulate married man seeking mf encompasses the sites of modern private life that lie outside the family.

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Two puzzling feminist issues influenced my approach to the topic. The first was a pattern I noticed in the early seventies among numerous women's "consciousness-raising" groups. In these grassroots groups in the second wave of feminism, women explored the politics of personal life, to develop a feminism seeikng could transform both private and public life.

Feminists have often been accused of intentionally undermining marriage and the mmacks. But many consciousness-raising groups that I knew of—including the one I joined—spent the largest portion of their time helping members "work through" intimate heterosexual relationships.

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Because companionate marriage is a theoretical concern here, I might have focused on urban, educated professional women, the sector with which companionate marriage is most artkculate identified in the literature. Yet the recent outpouring of writing on friendship—most of it about women in this stratum—suggests that under the influence of feminism, many of these women are reviving the ideology of romantic friendship; this posed a problem for me.

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For female in Caboolture South wanna be a friend, a previous analysis of survey data on friendship suggested that motherhood constricts women's networks of friends considerably more than fatherhood does men's.

Because mothers with small networks were unhappier than those with large ones, Claude Fischer and I took those contracted networks to reflect constraints on mothers' ability to conduct friendships rather than their preferences.

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